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My First Sex Experience: Something Worth Sharing Or?

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My first sex experience was remarkable. Everything I expected and more.

Some backstory. For the longest time, I thought there was something “wrong” with me sexually. I couldn’t masturbate. I was terrified of sex and extremely scared of penises. I was convinced I’d never have sex.

Fast forward to my (ex) boyfriend. I told him this when we were friends, he was very understanding. Once we started dating, he assured me we could do as much or as little as I was comfortable with. We started off slow, spending a month and a half getting familiar with our bodies and what made us tick.

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Something just told us today was the day.

No one was home. We were getting ready to leave for dinner (it was a surprise for his birthday). Something just told us today was the day. I was filled with anticipation as he double-checked that the condom was in place. I was so excited. He held my hand and asked me if I was sure about this. It was his first time too. I assured him I was more than sure.

And honest to God, as cliche and cheesy as this is, it was “magical.” I didn’t feel any pain. Just pure pleasure. He was gentle in all the right ways and not so gentle at all the right times. My boyfriend had been in love with me for a while but I just “liked” him. But something inside me changed. It felt as if we were now connected by body and soul, cheesy as FUCK, I know. I was filled with so much love for him at that moment. We both felt it. In the middle of it all, I declared “I love you.”

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And honest to God, as cliche and cheesy as this is, it was “magical.” I didn’t feel any pain. Just pure pleasure.

We lasted a while. We were late for dinner. His friends knew what was up, it was written all over our faces. My feelings of love didn’t disappear once it was over. It was one of the best moments of my life. Although he’s no longer in my life, I will continue to cherish it.

 

First Sex Experience Series:

Whether you’ve had a lot of sex experiences or none at all, two things are certain: If you’ve had sex, you can never forget your first experience even though as time goes on it might become tiny fragments in your imagination. And if you haven’t had sex, you are most times likely to catch yourself picturing how the first time will be. 

There are several facts and myths surrounding having sex for the first time, it varies per gender.

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For Females:
  • Compulsory pain and bleeding.
  • Becoming clingy to their first sex partner.
  • Body changes.
  • Feeling of regret or remorse (especially depending on circumstances surrounding).
For Males:
  • Overt excitement.
  • Ego boost.
  • Increase in penis size.
  • Looking forward to more sex adventure

 

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While these are based on collective generalizations, a lot of virgins are unsure about what to expect. Losing one’s virginity is a unique experience, despite prior knowledge about sex and daydreams, you cannot be certain it will match your expectations or fall short except you try. 

You’re probably wondering why I’m all about sex today right? Well to wrap up the month of April starting from the 27th up until May 4th, 2020, we’ll be sharing stories about our first sex experience (#FirstSexExperienceSeries).

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Why are we doing this? Asides from the fact that curiosity makes us drawn to the untold stories of people, sex ranks among the shyest topics. People avoid it especially their first experience. So I thought, why not give people a platform to talk about their first sex experience with the sole purpose of narrating it in a didactic way. There’s a lot to learn.

Sex means different things to a lot of people. To some it is the best kind of intimacy/ bonding with their significant other, to some it is a sacred act, to some it is only a duty and to some, for mere pleasure. I don’t know how true it is but I read somewhere that whatever sex means to a person goes a long way in defining who they really are. Also, what it means to an individual could change as they experience life.

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How was your first sex experience? Is it worth learning from no matter the circumstances surrounding it? Is it one you’ll love to share? If yes, the following are vital questions your story should provide answers to if they must be featured.

  • At what age did you lose your virginity?
  • Would you say it was the right time or due to pressure?
  • Did the experience meet your expectations?
  • How did you feel afterwards? (body changes, psychologically, socially)
  • Did it make your relationship better or worse? More intimate/clingy?
  • Were there any regrets?
  • Did you look forward to a second time?
  • What does sex mean to you?
  • Is sex is overrated?
  • What advice would you give to virgins?

It is important that you stay truthful in telling your story, you never know who is learning. All stories should be sent using the ‘Submit Story’ page. If you wish to remain anonymous, kindly indicate in your story. Thank you for your willingness in advance, I can’t wait!

 

First Sex Experience Story source- Dana Koussa on Quora.com

 

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Bobby
Bobby
7 months ago

Why is it doing me like i know the day you’re talking about 😂

Bubu.
Bubu.
7 months ago

I’m looking forward to reading first hand experiences of both the male and female species. Which would include both the pleasant and unpleasant stories. People tend to shy away from topics like these and not everyone is confident to share their #FirstSexExperience. This would really help those who are skeptical and unsure of what to do and how to go about it. Thanks for the initiative muttering minds.

solchibuzor
solchibuzor
7 months ago
Reply to  Bubu.

To some people, their first sexual experience is summed up in one word… “Mtchewww”.
While some have spent a life time lying about it, which makes it difficult to come up here and admit for the first time that it never lived up to all the hype. So yea..it’s not that easy to talk about.

Mirian_Chinazor
Mirian_Chinazor
7 months ago

Ghen ghen ghen 😁😁……
This is an Amazing initiative, fingers crossed. Can’t wait to read, learn and unlearn .#FirstSexExperience.

Bibi Mela
Bibi Mela
7 months ago

TBH, I don’t even know what to type as a comment. 😩 This brings back a whole lotta memories personally for me. I’m of the opinion that “what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas”,😁 so no telling Bish! 😜

Jules Jeremiah
Jules Jeremiah
7 months ago

This is quite insightful and I really look forward to this series. Mixed feelings though😔, but I guess I’m excited.

I can’t wait!

Kevvy Kay
Kevvy Kay
6 months ago
Reply to  Jules Jeremiah

Jules baby😭

Silas Otue
Silas Otue
7 months ago

But you didn’t tell us the age you lost yours (your first question).

Awesome write-up anyway, can’t wait to learn from others.

Amaka
Amaka
7 months ago

Nah, the experience did not meet my expectations, at some point I even felt sex was overrated cause the pain made took every other pleasure away. It made me dislike my partner too. I don’t know I guess I wasn’t so ready for it.

Chituru Omunakwe Onunwor
Chituru Omunakwe Onunwor
7 months ago

I was abused call it rape. But people will never agree because I’m male. I was only eleven years old so I didn’t feel pleasure nor remorse. It’s all in the past now, however, alot of young boys still suffer the same fate but the society will never see nor hear of it. Nice story.

Myke
Myke
6 months ago

If I could I would take back my first experience, as it was done out of spite and vengeance. I ll rather make it more of a sweet memory than a 5seconds embarrassment. Lol.

Miguel
Miguel
6 months ago

Been a long while I had sex and I feel like I’m nt going to feel it like I should anymore. I’m feeling worried.

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