Everyone enjoys gossip! like it or not, we are naturally drawn to the things that concern the next man at almost the same rate which we are concerned about ourselves… especially when it has an undertone of mystery.
Gossip is sweet to the ears but frankly adds no value (looking keenly), yet I wonder why we get so excited to indulge in the act. Hey! Don’t even give me that ‘Me I don’t gossip look‘… Shush😊! Everyone gossips; A gossip has no gender Ok!
The moment we hear “Babe(guy)! have you heard?”… O boy! That alone is enough to trickle an overboard of sensational curiosity in us…”Heard what?”… And then if the person says “I will tell you later” it becomes grade one trouble o😂😂; we want the gist now… How dare you arouse me in such manner only to leave me hanging, are you normal? Lol that’s how much adrenalin gossip can stir up in us😂.
So Here’s what I figured about gossip… Did you know It is one of the easiest ways to unwind? And in fact the cheapest treat we can give to one another lol…Gossip adds no value, yet we want more and more lol. it is one of the easiest tasks our brains can get accustomed to because it requires very little or no mental strain… hence the reason why we are attracted.
But hollop! Before you give into gossiping, ask yourself these valid questions…’ What exactly am I gonna do with this gist? Can it benefit me in any way? Found any? If No! Please back off. If sincerely Yes! You can proceed…I know it’s hard to back off Yeah! but it’s a training I have given myself to help curtail the ‘gossip behavior’. It should work for you too.
Wait a minute! I just heard someone say “Ehn it’s only when you talk bad about an individual that it’s gossip” don’t deceive yourself! Gossip is Gossip whether good or bad talks… You are also a gossip period😂😂!