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I Had My First Lesbian Sex, I’m Confused

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As a child, I had a very high libido, I loved the idea of sex right from when I was 12 as I read a lot of erotica (still do) that made me get addicted to masturbating from that age. I loved the idea of a boy wanting me and touching me. I was basically boy crazy in secondary school, I got in at age 10 meeting classmates a little older. They would watch porn and sometimes I watched it with them. I loved it but what really piqued my interest was the romance novels. I have an imaginative mind so I would vividly imagine what was going on in my head which led me several times to rub myself on the pillow and just any surface.

By the time I was in SS2 I had my first orgasm in class when my female friends were talking and I became horny and I kept rubbing my thighs together. I couldn’t scream I just laid my head on the desk and tried to calm down. I didn’t know it was because of my ovulation. Fast forward to after my WAEC and was home waiting for admission. I began to explore my body by touching myself and doing all sorts of nasty things to make me cum. For some reason, I began to watch lesbian porn and it appealed so much to me and I started to see girls differently. I would imagine myself kissing a girl, touching her, and having lesbian sex. It was my little secret.

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I VOWED

I couldn’t place how my love for sex and sexually related topics continued to blossom despite coming from a strict religious home. I grew up in a conservative home where we prayed for everything. I was the best in Sunday school and in fact the golden girl in church. I read passages in the bible of the head and would compete in bible quizzes where I was either first or second.

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My mum is a konk Christian woman who has a grave hatred for trousers, makeup, and so on, but my dad has no religion. My mum would always preach chastity to me as per the first child and warned me about not bringing disgrace to the family. She had no idea I was sunk in pornography because I knew how to play obediently. The only time she found something foul with me was when I was 14 and she read my diary and saw I had a crush on one of the boys in my class. She didn’t take it lightly with me, she ranted about my sin for days and I vowed to never let her know anything about me again.

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AND UNIVERSITY CAME CALLING

I had come to accept that females were more sexually appealing to me than males, but I was scared to pursue it for fear of family wrath so whenever the feeling came, it remained in my head.

The temptation grew out of hand when I got an admission to the university and had two female roommates. You know how girls are, always wanting to be either stark naked or half-naked when they’re indoors. My roommates barely wore clothes and I found myself sexually attracted and tempted to suck their nipples and do everything sexually crazy to satisfy my sexual urge. The urge was strong, but I lacked the confidence to approach either of them so I hated anytime they were naked and tried to caution them. I never let them in on my true feelings.

I wasn’t bold enough to approach any female on campus either to propose how I felt, so I made it a conscious effort to scrap the idea of being with a lady.

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FINALLY MET HER

Last year, I clocked 20 and had sex for the first time (heterosexual sex). I can’t remember a lot but it was uncomfortable. I started having sex properly after that. I love having sex with men but I never had orgasms, I mostly faked it and since my pussy is usually very wet, none of the men would imagine I wasn’t satisfied. I usually would masturbate after sex to get full satisfaction.

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I met my present boyfriend this year. He made me feel good. He is dark and handsome and has a very nice personality but his friend, a female, has this aura that makes me surrender. So intriguing, she is sex-positive and openly bisexual. She rekindled my suppressed feeling for females and truthfully I’ve found myself wanting her more than I want my man.

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One night I was high and when I am high,  I have no inhibitions. We were watching a movie and she placed her head on my lap. I started touching her little by little, then I touched her breasts, and she turned and kissed me. It was beautiful. She kissed me and asked if she could touch me properly. I said yes. Then she told me to take off my dress. She opened my legs and smelled me. She inhaled deeply and smiled. She told me I smelled good. I felt happy. She pulled my panties and licked me. She worked my body like it’s hers. She found my clit without me showing her and then she fingered me, it was awesome. The first time I would be fingered so good. All the men I’ve been with are always in a hurry while fingering and I sometimes have injuries. But she fingered me with precision. I came from her penetrating me, It had never happened before. I have never orgasmed from penetration before.

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I had four orgasms with her. I also came from nipple play, my nipples were so tingly after we were through. I was spent and I didn’t even go through stress. I screamed when she licked and sucked my clit. She looked me in the eye and smiled at me when I came down. She asked if I was good and I couldn’t even talk. She smiled and told me to sit in front of her, she whispered in my ear dirty talk and started touching my pussy,  I orgasmed again. I couldn’t understand how she knew my body so much. Gosh! lesbian sex is so sweet.

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HE FOUND OUT

I couldn’t keep what happened to myself, I told my boyfriend and to my surprise, he wasn’t that shaken. I think he didn’t feel threatened because she is a girl. He asked me who was better and I lied saying he was but I knew the truth, I didn’t want him to feel insecure. Whenever we have sex he tries too hard and sometimes I just go through the motions, he leaves me so sore it hurts to even urinate. He complains about my lack of spontaneity but doesn’t know I only manage to have sex with him when I’m high. But when I am normal I find it hard cause I might not be invested and it’s painful for me when he penetrates. He gives me head but ends up using teeth sometimes. It’s frustrating.

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I can’t stop thinking of her, I wish I could have lesbian sex with her again and please her also as she did with me. Whenever she comes around and we get high together, she might play with my nipples or my ass when my boyfriend is not there. She would smell my panties and tell me I smell so good. But when he is there I try to act normal because he started to warn me about it. I sometimes hint at a threesome but he doesn’t want it. She once said she wants to watch us have sex and she would be in the background. I wanted it so bad but he refused. I wanted her to see me aroused. Maybe I would orgasm from her watching. I don’t want to have sex again with her behind his back but I feel like it’s inevitable.

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SHE DOESN’T WANT ME

She has refused to date me, she’s not into dating and even when I offered to be in a polyamorous affair with her, she refused.  She prefers no string sex and she is also unpredictable. There are days she doesn’t want me but some days she wants me. Sometimes she tells my boyfriend to hold me tight otherwise she will snatch me, other times she wouldn’t even talk to me at all. Her unstable emotions gets me confused and sad.  I don’t know why I find myself so attached to her, could it be because she broke my lesbian virginity?

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Since our encounter, my sexual attraction for ladies is now so high, I see girls, and all I want to do is fuck them and please them so bad, If she is pretty and intelligent, major turn on. I love ass, I am an ass girl, when I see a girl with fine ass, it’s hard to take my eyes off her. My sexual attraction for women has gotten so bad that my other female friend has noticed that I look at her differently, I had to open up to her. I made moves on her, she is tall, curvy, has a big ass with creamy and spotless skin. One time playfully, she asked me to come and suck her breast and I surprised her by saying I would if she let me. She was shocked and stopped talking. I know she knows I am not straight.

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MY SEXUALITY DILEMMA

I think I would date a girl if I had a chance as I have found myself liking more girls now. I still like men though especially tall dark and handsome, if he has a beard then turn on. But more strongly, I would like to learn how to please a girl the same way my boyfriend’s friend pleased me with sweet lesbian sex. I always imagine how it is to taste pussy. I wish I could please someone and let them feel the same way I felt with her.

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What can I do? I love men and women but my lesbian side is more. Just the thought of women makes me very horny but I feel trapped as a Christian and worst of a Nigerian where homosexuality is condemned. Sometimes I think to myself, maybe I am actually a lesbian but compensate with boys because of the society I’ve found myself in. Please, Mutterers, I need your candid advice, leave me a comment 😥👇.

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muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago

Yet another story about sexuality confusion.  She needs your advice, should she go after women or strike a balance with both sex? 

I’ll await your very intelligent comments Mutterers 😉

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Nado
Nado
1 month ago

This babe is truly addicted to romantic novels because this write up alone is enough to give someone orgasm 🤣🤣… and that image 😭😭

I have heard so much about ladies knowing how to please ladies, this write up confirms it but I wouldn’t be quick to say you’re a lesbian not until you try with another lady or maybe meet a man that gives you great orgasm. Abi what do you think?

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Nado

🤣🤣🤣🤣 like I warned on Telegram, that they make sure they’re alone while reading to avoid someone shooting themselves on the foot lol.

Hmmmm so you’re saying maybe because she’s not found the right man to deliver orgasm and if she had, she might never be attracted to a lady?

Nado
Nado
1 month ago

I like to believe so even though she claimd she had alwys wanted to explore the female side. It takes one experience to change perspective. If only her boyfriend was good in bed. Well what do I know

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Nado

Hmmmmm…🤔

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Nado

I guess. And yeah gurls do know how to pleasure gurls
So far I still haven’t enjoyed sex with men

Deeman
Deeman
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Keep troubleshooting dear you’ll find a good fix of a man

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Deeman

Body count matters ooo😌😌

Deeman
Deeman
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous

😂😂 true that. So I suggest sometime soon an open discussion will be held for guys to express themselves (in detail) their sexual turn ons, and their preferred method of having sex.
At least it will save some people stress and time. Kinda like a trade fair Lol

anon
anon
1 month ago
Reply to  Deeman

lmao “troubleshooting”

Castroy
Castroy
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Try to discuss the with your man, make him touch you how she did it. Teach him how you enjoy it and make sure you pleasure him too back equally and he’ll definitely be willing to do it again

Tai
Tai
1 month ago
Reply to  Nado

Absolutely!!! I agree with you.she should try with someone else

Andrew Isaac
Andrew Isaac
1 month ago

This is very expressive story, I definitely got a boner 😉 while reading the article 😁. She is definitely a bi-sexual, and I think she shouldn’t be worried about the society, it’s her sexuality let her embrace it, it her feelings let her feel it,.. The lil worries should be how she’s going to surmmon courage to explain to her family…especially if they are the ones still feeding her 😂😂😂 then you go know if you go follow you family talk the matter or you keep the secret alil longer till you no longer under their care.. So they can… Read more »

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Andrew Isaac

🤭🤭 boner??? Woosh woosh!!

That courage to tell family is always weak. Sometimes even when some LGBTQ folks become independent, it’s still better to not tell. Having more of respect and the whole idea of ignorance being bliss.

Meanwhile speaking of boners, should you need some trick on how to hide your boner in public then this our old time favourite article should do “How To Get Rid Of Boners In Public”

Thank me later 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Andrew Isaac

My parents would never accept me. Especially my mum
Its easier to hide and pretend men are my everything

Andrew Isaac
Andrew Isaac
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous

it’s not all about them accepting you, Of course they will never accept.. In fact dey will never understand… But letting them know the truth about you gives you a level of inner freedom even though they don’t understand… Cus if you can openly tell them(family) or talk to them about your sexual orientation their Will be a level of acceptance within self … Unless you are expecting them accepted you right away… which is less possible..

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Andrew Isaac

Thanks. I guess this is okay also
But I would have to wait till I graduate first. So I can be bale to at least have something to my self. It would make it easier

Kaycee
Kaycee
1 month ago

She still has a little soft spot for guys meaning one good sexual orientated guy could do the magic, afterall she’s after her orgasm, if she meets one guys that knows his way around the female body, the table might turn from there.

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Kaycee

Hmmmm I see…a case of picking bad oranges yeah 🤔

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Kaycee

I don’t know if this is possible sef. Cause all the guys I have met have never cared to know my body better

Andrew Isaac
Andrew Isaac
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous

I don’t think the guys or orgasim is the issue here, the issue is the sexual orientation within (you) and it’s sexual preference… And you hve tried both parties… thanks to your exploration of your imagination and sexual desires.. And you enjoyed the experience and the feelings that came with it… And by the way I don’t also think those feelings are harmful to you nor anyone else.. Those feelings are the extension of who you are….

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Andrew Isaac

That is my issue. Sex isnt everything to me
I also want to be emotionally fulfilled but I have never found that with men. At all
I always end up being detached emotionally

Kaycee
Kaycee
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous

That’s the main issue, most guys don’t take their time, understanding how the female body works is paramount in every sexual relationship…it’s not everytime off undies, plug the D and off you go, nahhh, there’s more

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Kaycee

🤣🤣

Tai
Tai
1 month ago
Reply to  Kaycee

It just might still not kill the crave for lesbian sex! I know this for sure.

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Tai

Hmmmmm🤔

anon
anon
1 month ago
Reply to  Kaycee

i don’t agree with you because my bf does it like a pornstar but a girl can get it anyday. i just choose to suppress that side of me.

Bubu
Bubu
1 month ago

Baby girl the world is your oyster, explore and understand what’s good for you, you’ve got the time now. There are a lot of people who are in their 40’s but they’re yet to figure out their sexuality and are stuck in boring rships/marriages all because they weren’t open to exploring their otherq side. You might be bi-sexual or gay and you’re just holding back cos of the society we’re in.

But you see that lady that gave you the ride of your life, hold her tight 😂😂. She said work, her type is rare 🤣

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Bubu

@hold her tight 🤣🤣🤣 at this point she is a national treasure because orgasms can be hard to come by.

The idea of exploring sexuality is not a bad thing same with exploring different sex adventures but in this part of our world it’s considered a taboo. Most of us day dream about sexual fantasies but we might never execute them for fear of being judged.

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Bubu

Before nko
She might not want to date me but I would hold her ooo
I still need my fix

Tai
Tai
1 month ago
Reply to  Bubu

God bless you!!!!!!!

Anon
Anon
1 month ago

Omooooo, I relate with some parts of this writer. As a youngie, I started reading erotic & harlequin novels from a young age, very young and because how imaginative i can get I thought of everything and imagined everything i read. Hence the early interest in wanting to explore my body. Didn’t have sex though but i did alot. My advice? Honestly getaway from your feelings first? How? Same way u suppressed till u had your first lesbian sex. Don’t be to urged to follow your “konji full-self”. Try to communicate first with your bf how u liked to be… Read more »

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Anon

Makes sense! People feel trapped in relationships that do not satisfy them sexually because of supposed loyalty. I somewhat liked that you advised cheating and exploring because in truth her man might never be able to satisfy her sexually no matter how much she communicates.

She strikes me as someone who wants so much sexual gratification and will stop at nothing until she gets it. Not just getting it but having it readily available. There’s no crime in wanting this.

Thank you Anon.

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Anon

I totally get your point and I appreciate it. Its a major decision and Shit could go down . Thanks a lot

Henry
Henry
1 month ago

Omoh! I really got turned up by reading this cause I have always fantasized about having sex with a lesbian and her partner. Well that aside, I think the writer lacks good communication with her boyfriend in respect to how she wants to be pleased. Since she still have a thing for guys too. It sure shows that if she meets the right guy who knows his way around her body she wil get the utmost fantasy she craves for. Hiding her unsatisfactoriness while having sex with her boyfriend will still make her wallow in confusion on what sides to… Read more »

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Henry

Hmmmm seem like most of us have some sexual fantasies we’ll love to explore😁… I should consider working on a post on sexual fantasies 🤭

Now this, in my opinion I feel her boyfriend stylishly has a big ego and it will be a hard pill for him to accept she doesn’t enjoy him in bed.

She should try another man to be sure if she’s BI or gay😁

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Henry

My fantasy also. FFM

Deeman
Deeman
1 month ago

It’s not only lesbians that do this in bed na.
Also I feel she should have be able to talk with her man while doing the do in bed.

But since she has like 15 years experience craving lesbian sex , I think there’s little Oga can do about it.

There are men who have great skills in bed. But some ladies don’t know how to communicate their deepest desires, they will just be pretending and faking all the way and eventually they become depressed.

I come in peace

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Deeman

🤭🤭 @depressed? Is it that deep?

Well true, some guys are good at this but the heart wants what it wants yeah?? Fingers crossed in her quest🤞

Deeman
Deeman
1 month ago

Sadness and emotional pain in the relationship with hopes that he changes for the better… Yeah it is that deep. I’m learning everyday the importance of communication within a relationship and how it can affect each party involved especially the sensitive ones

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Deeman

True that. 👍

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Deeman

I won’t call it a fantasy. This is my sexuality here. It it was a fantasy It wouldn’t affect me so much. Yeah the men tried but maybe I am the one with the problem. Maybe I just find it hard to open up so much to them

Deeman
Deeman
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Dear anon, I think you misunderstood “deepest desires” with “fantasy”. They both mean different things (well with regards to the topic at hand sha)

So for you, it isn’t only about the sex right??

If it’s way more complicated I hope you find the satisfaction you seek……in the right man of course (cuz there’s always one for every girl). Good luck!

Anonymous **
Anonymous **
1 month ago

What an erotic journey!!! Reading lesbian sex kinda has the power to make anyone have a boner. She reminds me of myself reading erotic magazines, novels…I quite enjoyed reading them though. Opening up to her family is a NO NO! Don’t even go there. Your relatives don’t care about your orgasm o. Also, it’s sad your bf cannot give you orgasm and he is supposed to be curious to what made you enjoy the sex with his female friend. But since you have lied to him about his sexual prowess, his shoulders are high already. Some men are quite impatient… Read more »

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous **

Words on Marble: Your relatives don’t care about your orgasms o 🤔…

Quiet unfortunate she lied to him, if I were in her shoes, there’s a high chance I would have lied too😭😭

Anonymous **
Anonymous **
1 month ago

Well, the chance to even make him do better is lost so🤷

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous **

🤭🤭

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous **

In sex orgasm is the goal. But honestly my counsellor said it might be that I just don’t feel comfortable with men. Not cause of any trauma but my body’s way of telling me I am not straight

Anonymous **
Anonymous **
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous

I know that orgasm is goal in sex. I was just trying to help you play out your options as regards your bf.

Thank God you have a counsellor, it helps make one feel normal, cos in the ears of the outside world, they will help you create village people by force.

Also why I mentioned that, “your relatives don’t care about your orgasm o” so find it with all fear and trembling.☺️

Levi
Levi
1 month ago

Honestly, I am indifferent about homosexuality. But I will agree with someone said in the comments. Communicate how you want to be f**ked and see how he reacts to you. Also try to explore your female interests. Be sure what kind of sexuality you belong to. So that you know how to move on from there. If you know and accept who you are, you will know the next step to take.

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Levi

True. Self acceptance is major. Thank you Levi

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Levi

Thanks a lot💯💯

Mirian Chinazor
Mirian Chinazor
1 month ago

OMO!!!!!

The society we found ourselves in played a fast one on us , personally I feel we should all be able to explore our sexual attractions, have enough experience to enable us settle for what works best ….. I’m proud of the poster ,Majority of us suppress whatever sexual thoughts we have because the society played a fast one on us .

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago

True that! Suppressing doesn’t help instead it makes one feel outta place. More of “you can run but you can’t hide”.

Thank you

Castroy
Castroy
1 month ago

Nne ehn, the writer show knows how to express herself in writing. The post gave a Bonner that I quickly hid and controlled maybe because I have always fantasized about threesome with 2 lesbian partners. Firstly try to explore and find your sexuality so you are not stuck in a sad relationship for life. I believe communication is key in emotions and sex. If you don’t communication, you’ll always be on the loosing end. Try to talk to your man, teach him how you want to be touched and you’ll also reciprocate the same for him. If he doesn’t field… Read more »

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Castroy

What’s it with everybody and having a sexual fantasy with lesbians😂😂😂

Okay majority of the comment tilting towards communication. I should agree with you all then, but only once! If he doesn’t listen she can pack her load and explore the fields lol 😁

Castroy
Castroy
1 month ago

I don’t really know where the fantasy comes from but I know naturally men are wired to be pleased and be kings, an average man wants to have sex with as much ladies as possible in his life time. I think thats why its hard to see a man who only knew 1 woman all his life. The lesbian thing is just because they are the only set of ladies that’ll be willing and able to work together perfectly

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Castroy

Hmmmm this makes sense, the Alpha male effect😁

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Castroy

Its true though. I would try to communicate better with him. I do try my part though its the fact that he sometimes refuses to listen

Blinkz
Blinkz
1 month ago

This writer went from reading romantic novels to writing one so top notch🥰 I enjoyed the story I can help you out with advise in my room 😩

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Blinkz

😂😂😂 report your location

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Blinkz

😅😅. Awwww thanks
Hmmmm your room?

Blinkz
Blinkz
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Yes now 😋

Tai
Tai
1 month ago

The unstable emotions with the other lady is totally normal.. That feeling you get when you’ve just had sex after you had sworn to be celibate. Some of us are open minded and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.. I find some girls around me attractive too and I seldomly tease them about how I could make them feel good or snatch them from the craziness that surrounds keeping a boyfriend. I find lesbian sex intriguing and would love to try it sometime… Infact, I’m already thinking of how to hook up with the writer The only pull back… Read more »

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Tai

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you all are hilarious. Second person indicating to meet with the writer. I will do well to ensure you link up via email 😂😂😂

You might be the messiah she’s been looking for. Also make sure you’re kind enough to share the sexcapade gist with us here😉.

Thank you Tai😁

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Tai

Wait re u a girl?

Tai
Tai
1 month ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Absolutely!!!

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Tai

😉😉 hmmmm whats up

Jay
Jay
1 month ago

Dear Writer, it is said that people will do what is in their minds to do, whether you advise them or not. If you say what they want to hear, what they are inclined to do, it’s good advice. If you say something else, they jump am pass. That said, I have no advice for you. It is said that women hit their sexual prime at 30 and above. Don’t be surprised that to see a man skilled enough, experienced enough and self controlled enough to match a lesbian’s natural knowledge of how your body works, that man would be… Read more »

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Jay

Hmmmm too early to box herself into a sexual identity?? Not sure about this. If she wasn’t confused, she wouldn’t have written her experience. When is the right age then to accept one’s sexuality? Because I’ve read certain stories even on this blog where as little as below 10 years old, an individual already feels out of place over their imposed sexuality (heterosexual).

Asides this, I totally agree with you. Thank you, felt like a genuine ted talk😁

Jay
Jay
1 month ago

You want to come with stereotypes again with the question: what is the right age…. Must there be a right age?

Was 65 the right age for Colonel Sanders to open KFC?

The 10 year old who rejects heterosexuality, are you sure that one isn’t rebelling against something?

I don’t know too o, let’s keep finding the answers.

And the Ted talk part got me smiling.

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Jay

You are the one who indirectly chipped in stereotype with your sentence “It is too early to box yourself into a sexual identity.”

And then before that “You are just 20”… hence my question cause it seems like you have a certain age in mind.

Meanwhile what has KFC got to do with this conversation? 🤔🤔

Jay
Jay
1 month ago

I have no certain age in mind. What i am trying to say is: Some people have clarity about their sexual preferences at 20. Some have it at 30. There is no set age.

KFC entered the discussion because to some people, 65 is too late to do sturvs like that. Shulaf been 40. Or 50. Or 60. Etc.

Are we clear?

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Jay

Alright settled 😎

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Jay

I try to not box myself but its hard when I realise I like girls so much. Like u said I would try to explore more with both sexes to be sure

Dante Onwe
Dante Onwe
1 month ago

Lesbians turn me the fuck on and she is really naughty for this write-up…she got me feeling weird lol I still don’t consider lesbianism as homosexuality lol haha ladies are that lucky….maybe if I was a lady I would like a lady too. I mean look at how amazing their bodies are, nice curves and succulent…i am only homophobic to male to male sex and unapologetic. It’s totally understandable why our dear writer here enjoys lesbian sex. Ladies are tender and don’t rush into intercourse in fact the way they touch themselves it’s difficult to tell when foreplay has switched… Read more »

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Dante Onwe

Typical! 😂😂😂 Men can’t tolerate gays but they droll over lesbians 😂😂😂

Explore sexuality it is then. Meanwhile guard your boner with all diligence 😂😂🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

Dante Onwe
Dante Onwe
1 month ago

Sure will 😁

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Dante Onwe

Sorry about this but I stopped at unapologetic. I cant continue reading

Secret
Secret
1 month ago

I don’t see anything wrong with liking girls… i myself is bisexual but i only like the thoughts of men wanting me. I never liked sex with males because I haven’t encountered one that knows how to sex, they all just want their satisfaction and never actually think about the pain the lady is feeling. Sex with females is way better, and I myself knows how to please a female.

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Secret

Ooo yeah 😎😎… I must concur, as a lady there’s this feeling knowing men want me. I can’t explain it. It’s ☺

Thank you for sharing your secret with us 😃

Anonymous
Anonymous
1 month ago
Reply to  Secret

Thanks for this. Men just dont know how to please women fully.
Its the thoughts I like also

Ezeugo 1
Ezeugo 1
1 month ago

I talk am. I know say this story go dey like this. You go write full erotic story come ask us “what should I do?” Madam…. Fuck on oo. How do you expect us to have an answer. All these LGBT anonymous people wey dey share them story for here, just wait a little you hear? in some years to come LGBT will be legalized for Nigeria. It’s so inevitable. Africa is controlled by the west so there’s nothing we can do. “While my father has no religion” cracked me up. It’s always the fathers. Na money be our concern… Read more »

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Ezeugo 1

😂😂😂😂 you are a case. Hmmm I believe it will be legalised one day but my dear its a very long journey from now.

@fathers and no religion sha, money is the religion 😂😂

Ezeugo 1
Ezeugo 1
1 month ago

Wether long or short journey truth is that it will happen and in my lifetime so far as Nigeria remains so dependent on the west

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Ezeugo 1

Fingers 🤞

Koko
Koko
1 month ago

It’s quite simple she’s probably bisexual but leans more towards the side of the spectrum that is attracted to women

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Koko

Hmmmm interesting…I love how you put it 👌🏿

Koko
Koko
1 month ago

It’s always nice every once in a while to know we exist in Nigeria

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Koko

Yeah right 🤗

Joseph
Joseph
1 month ago

It’s rare an 8 min read holds my attention. This did. What an interesting read.

muttering minds
Admin
1 month ago
Reply to  Joseph

You’re welcome 😁

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