Why do you rethink letting down those tears? Is it because the offender is not worth it? Is it because you’ve heard the people say ‘Crying is for the weak’?
“Don’t let people see you bleed”… “Conceal your words”...yen yen yen. Not once! Not twice! But the umpteenth time have I seen and will I keep seeing similar texts bearing this message.
You are hurt. Its evident in your voice, your hands have activated that subtle vibration mode and your tongue fails you. Not even a word can be mustered. You know why? Its because it’s time for those tears to have an overflow, trickling down your cheeks. But No! You indulge in a battle of conserving tears because the folks said crying is for the weak.
Why are we so ashamed to cry in front of people? No! I’m not about to give you one of those you look beautiful when you cry speech.
Diverse situations occur daily, some trigger an ocean of emotions. At this point I can’t move my lips, tears fill my eyes and my jaw becomes so heavy like a hen. Suddenly, I look at everyone around me, wondering if they will enjoy the feast my eyes are about to conduct.
“Oh there! That’s my crush, does he deserve to see this at all”
“Oh No! My colleagues, will never forget today, they’ll probably reminisce anytime they are out of jokes”
Here I go, weighing my options, I guess it happens to you too.
Most times I excuse myself or hold the tears all up in my eyes until they become too heavy for my eyes to carry and then they run down forcefully.
It could be embarrassing you know, and funny enough when someone asks me why I am crying, I deny it.
“Me? Cry? Naaa. Too much air had been let into my eyes that’s why you see tears”...such dumb lie!
People have become so hardened that everyone who sheds tears in their presence is pretending. Since they have forgotten how to cry, why else should someone cry? I remember a sermon of a man of God where he said, “If you dont cry when some grave situations occur, cry that you couldn’t cry”.
Don’t shut people up when they are crying. Sometimes it’s the only and best way they can communicate how they feel. Allow people cry however they desire to express it. If you must console, don’t try to shut them up, don’t laugh, don’t say to them it’s a sign of weakness. Maybe you can join in their cries too or a hug or bare silence could do the magic.
If God knew we would be shy to let down those tears, he wouldn’t have put it there or given us eyes. In my opinion, God put tears in there so they can be seen and admired, connected with, be it tears of joy or sorrow.
Letting down tears has its own beauty. I admire the strength that comes with it. How are we comfortable to mock or hide such raw emotions? You might be ugly when you cry, but those emotions don’t care. All they crave is to have their way through tears, do we deprive them?
Note: I have no crush! I only ran out of lines there and I took a preference of getting into your head with those lines. Huh! You think I am lying right? Ok! You win😂😂