I really enjoy solo shopping contrary to how most ladies like it. The normal ladies routine is usually…‘ Only when two or three ladies are gathered, shopping should take place’. Well, I am different and this is because I like what I like and you don’t try to change my mind for anything in the world๐.
I don’t appreciate that someone accompanies me to the market and tries to influence my decision about every single item I want to buy. ‘No don’t buy it! The seller is trying to rip you off so much money… It’s expensive here, let’s check another store’.
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*huge sigh* ๐๐ซ Like can you just let me be sis! This so far as I can remember is the umpteenth seller we have inquired on this same item. My legs are aching already. Besides the price is the same as I budgeted, why not let me do my thing huh?
I do not enjoy anyone taking up the role of my conscience when I intend to spoil myself silly. Do you know how much effort I put in to sedate this conscience of mine ๐๐?
Another is the issue of preference. Every lady seems to be a fashion expert nowadays.ย l see a dress I love and you say โNo! That’s not good enoughโ, in the most disparaging tone ever ๐ค.ย
How do you even know what is good enough for me huh? If you hadn’t followed me and you saw me on this dress, I am 100% sure you will love it, so what makes it different now?
Bottom line! I enjoy shopping with me alone. If it’s on the high side and I can afford it, why not? If it’s my kind of cloth and I like it, why not? It saves me so much time you know, instead of having to walk about the whole market like one who’s on a missionary journey.ย
Hey hey! Hollop! It’s not like I am against bargaining, I just believe there’s a limit to it okurrrrrr. ๐
I don’t like shopping with friends and it’s not because I don’t want them bombarding me with their opinions on what I should buy and shouldn’t buy. It’s because I’d feel really bad if I don’t get them something, even if it’s just a shirt. And this could affect my shopping plans.
ooooouch! here’s another angle. Sometimes we plan it by shopping together when we all have money so that no one feels bad
“When we all have money” this is important. It’s important that anybody accompanying me when I go shopping must have his own money and must be willing to spend it.