Some guys really need to have sense or borrow from a friend that has spare.
So I walked into this compound to verify an address, you know the whole banking Know Your Customer (KYC) tingy? I met a young man by the way.
The part of this story that pisses me off is that the nigga was responding to me behind closed doors, and I didn’t mind AT ALL. I had gotten my confirmation and thanked him to leave, the next thing was he opened his door and flashed the bright light on my face, I forgot to mention it was at night. That was rude but he didn’t apologize.
The next thing was he started a conversation I was obviously not interested in and just to reciprocate a kind gesture, I gave him an audience. He introduced himself down to his occupation, family and their locations. All the while I thought to myself, “Brother did I ask you?”
He went on to say he’ll introduce me to where I’ll earn huge pay as a model. First! I’m not a model and I stated it clearly before he obligated himself. Secondly, I am not interested, and I was nicely blunt about it.
I managed to leave the place but all the while I kept thinking so I confided in a male friend purposely to know how truly the minds of the guys work, perhaps I am missing something.
His response was: “Why obligate himself to get your attention? So for him mind now, he can get you a job that pays you well:100k/job well, abi 10k/job well, abi 50k/month well? Which?
“Him wan woo you naim him no go buy you snack with money? Make some guys de get sense o! Na because of guys like am babes de yab us say we no sabi talk to woman. Coz I know say modelling job na per job n not per month. Make him get sense o! Or borrow!”
His response was so hilarious that I laughed my ass off.
To the ladies, I’m sure you’ve had experiences where guys you meet for the first time just talk and can say anything to get your attention, sometimes it’s irritating, don’t fall. Let him obligate himself and prove all he wants, don’t jump into dancing around that you’ve found a savior. He only thinks you’re cute and wants to see how long it’ll take him to get the cookie. Or is this what it means to woo a lady?